• Home
  • About
  • Therapists
  • Therapies
  • Case Studies
    • Real Life Case Studies
    • Celebrity Case Studies
    • Case Study Testimonials
  • Editorials
  • Partners
  • Microsites
    • A.D.H.D
    • Asthma
    • Cancer
    • Carers
    • Coeliac
    • Mental Health
    • Eating Disorders
    • Eczema
    • IBS
    • ME
    • Men’s Health
    • Pregnancy
    • Rare Diseases
    • Stress
    • Stroke
  • Info
    • Healthy Smoothie Recipes
    • Training Schools
    • Nutrition
    • Loveursoul Questionnaire
    • Events
    • e-books
    • Relaxing Music
    • Blog
    • Interesting Facts
    • Retreats
    • Recommended Books
    • Little Bits Of Inspiration
    • ‘Avoiding Dis-ease in the first place’
  • news

Adoption

I was adopted when I was 6 and I struggle to maintain any relationships

Symptom

When I was 6 I was adopted into a family without my brother and sister. My adoptive family were very nice in that I had everything I needed and they never shouted at me. They were however very factual and very undemonstrative. I know that they loved me but I never felt I really had any bond with them. When I was 21 they both died in a very short period of time and since then I have been self-sufficient. I have a good job and I work hard but I don’t really have a social life and I don’t really know how to go about it. I am now 27.

Possible Solution

I happened to slip on some ice one day on the way to work and really hurt my back. I went to the doctor and he referred me to an osteopath. I took the name he recommended and went to see them. When I got there he started to treat my back but I discovered he was more than just an osteopath and whilst he did help heal my back he also helped heal me. I went on seeing him for about two years every 3 months and I now go back once a year just for a check up. It was not the only thing he helped me with though he recommended I try art therapy and I joined a really good group who I now see every week. I have made some great friends and I feel as if my life is moving in a much more positive way.

Possible Therapies

  • Art Therapy
  • Cranial Osteopathy
  • CBT
  • Counselling

—————————————————————————————————————————————————

I was adopted and now want to understand why

Symptom

I was adopted as a small baby and have always known this and not really had any questions about it. My adoptive parents are really nice people and I love them dearly. I would not want to change anything however I do have questions about my birth etc.  I don’t really want to track my natural parents but feel I could find out some answers without having to do this.

Possible Solution

I happened to have a bad bout of eczema due to some stress at work so a friend suggested that I went to see a homeopath. She started by treating this but over the course of the next few months other things started to get discussed and she recommended I see either a CBT specialist or a cranial osteopath. I was lucky enough that I could afford both so I thought I would try them both. I went to see the people my homeopath recommended and I saw the CBT counsellor twice and the cranial osteopath every three months for about a year. Between them they have given me the answers I needed and the ability to move forward without looking back!

Possible Therapies

  • Cognitive Behaviour Therapy
  • Counselling
  • Cranial Osteopathy
  • Homeopathy

Sharing Your Experiences:

Sharing our life experiences with others not only helps them but also allows us to heal. At loveurSoul we are keen to hear your real life experiences in order that we may share them with our readers, promoting better physical, emotional and mental health.

To add your own personal experiences to loveurSoul please click here

Recently Added:

Autism
Bereavement
Abuse
Headaches
Neck Pain
Redundancy
Fear Of Flying
Adoption
Unstable Childhood
Impotence
Children
Down Syndrome
Sexual Problems
Suicidal
Feeling An Outsider
Self Loathing
Binge Drinking
Phobias
Alopecia
Family Problems
Arthritis
Bullying
Addiction
Shy
Low Self Esteem
OCD
Back Pain
Depression
Abandonment

© 2011 Loveursoul. All Rights Reserved
  • Terms & Conditions
  • RSS
  • About
  • Background
  • Help